"If you look for perfection, you'll never be content." - Leo Tolstoy Do you know the most powerful way to save your relationship? Do you think you're being unrealistic with your expectations in your relationship or do you think you're right and your partner is wrong? Do you think you expect too much or your partner just isn't doing enough? Do you think you do all the work and they do nothing? I’ve learned a [...]
"It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important. " - Soren Kierkegaard I'm not exactly sure what qualifies someone as an expert these days. Do you need a degree or is it really experience that counts? Should you only take advice from someone who is considered an expert? We all ask friends and family for advice when it comes to love and dating, but [...]
"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." - Wayne Dyer Sometimes you’re confused about whether you should stay in your relationship or whether you should go. What if you still love them, but you aren’t happy? What if you wake up every day wondering if its you or them or the relationship? What if you start to pick apart every little thing they do or don’t do or you're always [...]
"The quickest way to kill the human spirit is to ask someone to do mediocre work." - Ayn Rand No One Wants to Be Mediocre Do you want to master your life and realize your dreams? No one wants to wake up one day and realize they hate their life. No one wants to wake up one day and realize life is not what they dreamed it would be. No one wants to live a life unfulfilled. [...]
"For true love is inexhaustible; the more you give, the more you have. And if you go to draw at the true fountainhead, the more water you draw, the more abundant is its flow." Antoine de Saint-Exupery I used to think that true love meant a guy listen who would listen to me all the time and shared my deepest darkest thoughts anytime, all the time. I used to think it was a guy [...]
"My whole philosophy is about doing, not talking." - Sally Ride I'm going to explain why you shouldn't follow the thirty day No Contact Rule If there's one thing I hate, it's being ignored. Being ignored triggers my childhood issues of not feeling seen or heard and makes me extremely anxious and irritated. A surefire way to get me to never talk to you again and to despise your very existence is to ignore me. [...]
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option." - Mark Twain Some days I wonder, how many times can you give your heart away without return before it breaks for good? How many times can you feel like you give of yourself and get nothing back? How many days can someone feel ignored and pushed away before they go away for good? How many days can someone try to [...]
"We don't develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity." - Barbara De Angelis If you're in a relationship your man is going to pull away from you at some point and if you make certain mistakes you're going to push him away further. So, how are you going to deal with it when it happens? The other day I found myself on the end of [...]
“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we're settling for.” - Mandy HaleIf your partner broke up with you do you want them back because they’re really the right person for you or you are feeling rejected? Did they treat you well when you were together or are you recreating old patterns that feel comfortable but no longer serve you? When my [...]
“Don't forget to love yourself.” - Soren Kierkegaard Do you know what it means to love yourself? We all want to fit in and feel like we belong. Many of us have that constant nagging little voice telling us we aren’t like everyone else. However, I often wonder, does everyone have that nagging voice or only some of us? What is so wrong with being different, with not being what others consider normal? Albert [...]
