"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." - Wayne Dyer Sometimes you’re confused about whether you should stay in your relationship or whether you should go. What if you still love them, but you aren’t happy? What if you wake up every day wondering if its you or them or the relationship? What if you start to pick apart every little thing they do or don’t do or you're always [...]
"For true love is inexhaustible; the more you give, the more you have. And if you go to draw at the true fountainhead, the more water you draw, the more abundant is its flow." Antoine de Saint-Exupery I used to think that true love meant a guy listen who would listen to me all the time and shared my deepest darkest thoughts anytime, all the time. I used to think it was a guy [...]
"My whole philosophy is about doing, not talking." - Sally Ride I'm going to explain why you shouldn't follow the thirty day No Contact Rule If there's one thing I hate, it's being ignored. Being ignored triggers my childhood issues of not feeling seen or heard and makes me extremely anxious and irritated. A surefire way to get me to never talk to you again and to despise your very existence is to ignore me. [...]
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option." - Mark Twain Some days I wonder, how many times can you give your heart away without return before it breaks for good? How many times can you feel like you give of yourself and get nothing back? How many days can someone feel ignored and pushed away before they go away for good? How many days can someone try to [...]
"We don't develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity." - Barbara De Angelis If you're in a relationship your man is going to pull away from you at some point and if you make certain mistakes you're going to push him away further. So, how are you going to deal with it when it happens? The other day I found myself on the end of [...]
“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we're settling for.” - Mandy HaleIf your partner broke up with you do you want them back because they’re really the right person for you or you are feeling rejected? Did they treat you well when you were together or are you recreating old patterns that feel comfortable but no longer serve you? When my [...]
“The desire to love someone always exceeds the desire to be loved by someone & that's exactly why we end up loving the person who doesn't deserve that LOVE.”― Anirban Bose, Bombay Rains, Bombay Girls Can we have a little girl talk for a minute? Can we talk about the reality of having an affair and being a mistress? Can we talk about the truth of what's going on and how its affecting you and [...]
"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together" - Marilyn Monroe If anyone has been through break-up heartache- it’s me. I’m on my sixth long term relationship. Every time I went through a break-up, I thought the world was ending. I thought they were the only one. I thought certainly there must be a mistake. I thought they were the one for me and I must be completely in the wrong, right? [...]
"Commitment is an act, not a word." - Jean-Paul Sartre Let me be clear here, a guy who is scared of commitment isn’t the same as a commitment Avoidant guy. Steer clear of anyone who is deeply afraid (more than scared) of commitment. I dated a man for two and a half years who would never fully commit even though we spent every major holiday together, he stayed at my house and I stayed at [...]
“ Absence is to love as wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.” – Roger de Bussy-Rabutin There are a ton of tips and tools that go into making a a long distance relationship work, however having been in a number myself I can tell you that there are a few requirements that are a must. Here are 7 tips to help you make your long distance relationship work. 1. [...]
