"There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness." - Friedrich Nietzsche Do you feel like you and your partner are slowly drifting apart? Do you worry that you don't know how to make your partner happy and vice versa? Do you know how to keep your relationship from ending? If you were to rate your relationship right now where would you put it on a scale of [...]
"A woman knows by intuition, or instinct, what is best for herself." - Marilyn Monroe Although intuition is nature’s way of telling you something it wrong, it doesn’t always mean you should follow it or that you can. Sometimes it means learning something you need to learn. What if your intuition is right, but, you have a journey to take? What if following your intuition allowed you to skirt around the hard parts. Have you [...]
"We often fancy that we suffer from ingratitude, while in reality we suffer from self-love." - Walter Savage Landor There are so many self-help articles, books, blogs and dating coaches talking about self-love and how you have to have self love before you can find a partner, be your best self, get the right job, make your way in life. Self-love this. Self-love that. But, what exactly is self-love and how do you find it [...]
If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough. —Oprah Winfrey What exactly is the Law of Attraction (LOA)? For those of you who have never heard of the Law of Attraction the basic premise is that Like Attracts Like. The fundamental concepts of the LOA are theoretical and scientific in nature. Basically, we are all energy. [...]
"The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today." - Franklin D. Roosevelt Dating can be really frustrating and difficult. But, what if you made it fun instead? What if dating is practice for social interactions and learning how to communicate with the opposite sex on a deeper level? One of the reasons dating can be so irritating are the limiting beliefs we have and those we put out to [...]
“It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die, than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience.” – Julius Caesar For those who have never been in a relationship with someone in the Military or for those who are just entering one there are a few traits you will need to have if you want your relationship to survive and more importantly - to thrive. Loving a warrior is [...]
“I don't want to be alone, I want to be left alone.” - Audrey Hepburn Anyone who’s an extrovert won’t get this post at all. However, if you have a friend or loved one who is an introvert you may want read it. The original meaning of the words "extrovert" and "introvert" are different than what we consider them to be today. Today people consider an extrovert as someone who is social and outgoing, while [...]
“Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world." - Helen Keller Always Take That Call Tonight, I was speaking with a friend. He did not have a happy childhood and like many of it influenced his life. On top of the unhappy childhood, he suffered some severe trauma as a soldier in Iraq. He was a witness to his best friend having his [...]
"With fools, there is no companionship. Rather than to live with men who are selfish, vain, quarrelsome, and obstinate, let a man walk alone." -Buddha Many of us choose emotionally unavailable partners. Why do we do it? How do we stop? What type of partner do you usually choose? Do you chose someone who is toxic, alcoholic, emotionally unavailable, unemployed, unusually close to a parent, still attached to the ex, commitment phobic, financially unstable, perpetually [...]
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." - Walter Winchell Do you believe in negative energy? What if you don’t have negative energy, but you surround yourself with others that have negative energy? What do you think will come into your life? Ridding yourself of negative energy that surrounds you will open your vibration up to new and more positive experiences. There may be people in [...]
