What to Do If You’re A Control Freak & Its Running Your Life

"We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy." -- Walter Anderson Every day I wake up wondering what happiness feels like.  What does it feel like to have peace and contentment? What does it mean to have a sense of joy and appreciation in the little things?  What do you do when you look and look and you search and search [...]

2019-04-14T18:15:37+00:00September 21st, 2016|Change, Personal Growth|

Why You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love

"It is easy to hate and it is difficult to love. This is how the whole scheme of things works.  All good things are difficult to achieve; and bad things are very easy to get." - Confucius Love is beautiful. Love is life changing. Love is an emotional high.  Love is one of the most amazing experiences a person can ever have. Love brings new awareness and change and butterflies and sex. At the same [...]

2019-04-14T18:15:51+00:00September 15th, 2016|Dating, Love & Relationships|

What Happens When You Finally Realize You Deserve Better

“Yes, I deserve a spring–I owe nobody nothing.”― Virginia Woolf Do you remember all those times your friends told you, "you deserve better" or "you are the best thing that ever happened to him" or "he doesn't deserve you"?  Did you nod your head and say, "yes, I know." Did you say "yes, I know", but not believe it? Did you think it intellectually, but not truly feel the brunt of what that means?  I [...]

2019-04-14T18:15:59+00:00September 2nd, 2016|Break-Ups, Love & Relationships|

A Simple Way to Stay Centered Despite Stay The World Around You

"Flow with whatever may happen and let your mind be free. Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate."  - Zhuangzi To be centered means you don't allow the words, actions or in-action of others affect you, your world, your sense of self or your sense of serenity. Staying centered means fully accepting and loving yourself.  It means knowing your strengths and your weaknesses, your flaws and your imperfections and loving all [...]

2019-04-14T18:16:16+00:00September 1st, 2016|Personal Growth|

Why A Devastating Break-Up Can Be the Best Thing That Ever Happened

"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek." -  Barack Obama Six.  That’s how many relationships it took for me to change.  You might be wondering what the hell I was doing in each of those if I wasn’t changing after each one.  If you think I was avoiding change you would be [...]

2019-04-14T18:16:25+00:00August 23rd, 2016|Break-Ups, Love & Relationships|

The Zen of Patience: How to Cope with Being Stuck

"Have patience. All things are difficult before they become easy." - Saadi There are days and weeks and months where we try to move forward. I mean, really try.   We try to change and be happier, calmer, easier and better and no matter what we do nothing changes. I used to think all the bad things that happened to me and all the constant feelings of being stuck were my negative karmic energy and I [...]

2019-04-14T18:16:34+00:00August 18th, 2016|Personal Growth|

What To Do If You Feel Stuck and Want To Change Your Life

"Consult not your fears but your hopes and your dreams. Think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what it is still possible for you to do." -  Pope John XXIII Let me ask you something:  Do you ever wake up wondering what you are doing with your life and how and why you ended up where you did?  Do you [...]

2019-01-08T17:57:30+00:00August 8th, 2016|Change, Personal Growth|

How An Abused Little Girl Learned to Love Herself

I’m going to tell you a story about a little girl.  It may be hard to read, but as with all dark things there also comes light. My Story There once was a little girl.  She was smart and precocious and independent.  She liked to do things for herself and was wildly adventurous.  She was always off on her own playing with toys or reading or building things or doing things.  She liked to play [...]

2019-04-06T21:34:45+00:00August 5th, 2016|Personal Growth, Self Love|
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